Today, I was talking with a guy that I dated earlier this year, just a few dates, nothing developed from it, I think refered to him as "NM" in previous posts. Anyways, he asked me today whether we could have a "friends with benefits" type of relationship. Interesting...
The strange part is, this is the guy who doesn't drink because he's against it, doesn't swear because he's against it, doesn't go to bars because he's against it. Yet, he apparently has no problem having no strings attached, totally non-committal sex with me. Doesn't make sense to me.
Since this is a guy that I know I could never have a future with, I don't really see myself getting involved with him. I mean, what's the point? I've never been a fan of the "sex without feelings" thing. I think I need to care about someone and have that committment and trust there. Otherwise, that takes all the meaning out of sex.
So, I have decided to turn down his proposition. I don't know whether to be flattered or weirded out. The whole situation is strange.
3 comments:
Hmmm... that is quite the proposition... I can honestly say no guy has ever suggested that to me! I'm not a big fan of the idea of "friends with benefits", so I think you made a good choice. I wouldn't get overly wierded out - unless he persists - as I think a lot of guys have a very casual opinion of sex (not all, mind you, but a good portion).
very weird. I can't say that proposition has ever been made towards me either. Mind you I'd probably smack the guy for suggesting it! ;)
Very weird... Very weird... Cudo's to you for saying no. I'd have to agree with you, having a 'no strings attached' friends with benefits type of relationship isn't my idea of a good time either.
And no... Sergio hasn't called me back.
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