I FINALLY got my JetsGo refund. Yay! I am so happy that I got it. Now I have a credit on my mastercard, who would have thought? That's good though because I bought shoes and pedals for my bike and put that on my card, so it's like I'm getting them for free because I won't have to pay that money back - yay! And I still have almost $300 left of the credit, so I can buy some more bike accessories, tri shorts, and register for my 2 tris and will probably still have some left over.
I had a most excellent weekend with the exaggerator and lj up at my cottage. It was very relaxing and we had a lot of fun. The weather was really nice too. Of course, the weekend just flew by, I have no idea where it all went, but it was fun nonetheless.
It looks like date #3 with BD will be on Wednesday. He seems to be really keen to see me again, so that is never a bad thing. We're kind of in the whole "limbo-land" right now. Where I'm not sure whether this is a just a hang out as friends thing, or whether this is a dating thing, and if it's a dating thing, does he think it's a dating thing too, or does he think it's a friends thing. I wish I could read his mind and know whether he sees me as just a friend to hang out with or whether he sees me as someone he is dating. I certainly consider our outings dates, but I really don't know if he does. Makes it difficult. Maybe he hasn't kissed me yet is because he thinks we're just friends. Or maybe he wants to be more, but doesn't know how I feel, so doesn't want to make a move until he knows how I feel. It's all so unknown. Hmmm... Don't really know what to do about this. Probably just continue on how we're going and see where it leads.
4 comments:
Did you meet on a Christian DATING site. I think that is a good sign :) if he weren't interested in DATING you, I'm sure he would have said something :D
Thanks, you're right lj :) If he weren't interested in dating me, I'm sure he would have said something. Or at least he wouldn't be so keen to keep seeing me.
Perhaps he simply doesn't want to rush things. Maybe he just wants to get to know you (in person)before deciding whether he wants a relationship. I'd say after date number 3, there should be a definite indication. Otherwise, just ask what he thinks. There's no harm in that. If he wants to be friends, he shouldn't be offended by you asking him about what he wants, and if he wants more, he should be willing to tell you that. At least you'll find out how good he is at communication... Depending on what happens tomorrow night, you may not even need to ask! ;o)
Have fun on your date tonight!! :D
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