Date No. 3 with BD was last night and I had an awesome time again. We really get along well. We went bowling (and I realized how much I really do suck at bowling). But, it was fun nonetheless. Then we went out for dinner and the waiter spilled my beer on me! It was funny. He only spilled like maybe 1/4 of the beer, and I got a whole new free one, so I got almost 2 beers for the price of 1. Score! Sure, I had a little beer on my leg, but meh, oh well. What was really funny is the waiter said "I'm so sorry for spilling that on you...this isn't your first date, is it?" That was funny.
Then, since we were really close to the mini-golf place and didn't want the night to end quite yet, we had a re-match on the mini-golf course. He beat me, again, but it was much closer this time and I improved my score substantially from the last time.
At the end of the night, we were talking, and I think it was one of those situations where we both really wanted to end the night with a kiss, but we were both too chicken to make the first move. So, we ended with a hug instead. Booo. Oh well. If that's the only thing I can find wrong with him is the fact that he cares about what I think so much that he's afraid to do something that might offend me, I guess that's alright. I wish there was a way to let him know I want him to kiss me without saying it. Hmmm... Well, I think we're going to go out again early next week, so maybe by then we will both have snapped out of our state of chicken.
Going to pick up my bike tonight. Yay!
3 comments:
Thanks for the update because YES! we are curious! ;o)
It sounds like the two of you are actually dating, so at least there's that. As for the kiss thing, perhaps if you are still feeling a little chicken you could try the kiss on the cheek thing and see what happens? Perhaps he will get a subtle hint that it's okay? I dunno...
First kisses suck. That is all I can say. I remember when I started dating mark (like FOREVER ago!) we didn't kiss until like our 5th date, and it was the most awkward thing ever. We had been doing the hug thing for a bit, and I knew he was coming in for the kiss, and then I chickened out, and then I didn't. Just awkward all around. It'll get better :)
As for the bike, you were supposed to pick that up last night! I was more eager to hear about the bike :)
As for given a subtle hint - you could lean in and let him make the actual move. You go the first bit and he does the rest. Hope it happens soon for you :)
First kisses are awkward... I remember my first kiss with JB... both of us were very, very nervous (I made the first move... he later admitted he's glad I did, because he likely would have been a chicken and never tried to make the first move). The kisses definately got better... ;)
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